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2 JUL 67 TASSEY, MALCOLM ★ 3 JUN 43 - 2 JUL 67 ALBANESE, ROBERT ★ 25 OCT 31 - 3 JUL 69 LAYTON, ROBERT ★ 23 JUL 44 - 3 JUL 69 CATLING, ROBERT ★ 29 JUL 46 - 3 JUL 66 BILENSKI, JOHN ★ 6 JUL 39 - 3 JUL 68 SYDOR, DENNIS ★ 24 JUL 50 - 4 JUL 69 DIXON, CECIL ★ 13 NOV 38 - 4 JUL 67 SCHMUTZ, ANTHONY ★ 28 APR 43 - 4 JUL 67 STEFANIAK, STEPHEN ★ 15 FEB 48 - 4 JUL 68 MICKENS, CARL ★ 9 APR 44 - 4 JUL 70 TERRY, FREDERICK ★ 3 JUN 37 - 4 JUL 68 HICKS, JOSEPH ★ 30 MAR 47 - 4 JUL 67 WOODROW, ROBERT ★ 20 DEC 46 - 4 JUL 67 BORREGO, ANTHONY ★ 25 MAR 42 - 5 JUL 67 LAWRENCE, BRUCE ★ 12 JAN 43 - 5 JUL 68 ALAMO, GABRIEL ★ 18 NOV 18 - 6 JUL 64 NAWROSKY, MICHAEL ★ 18 JUN 41 - 6 JUL 68 ACKERMAN, DAVID ★ 5 OCT 45 - 6 JUL 69 PIASCIK, MICHAEL ★ 28 NOV 45 - 6 JUL 66 BAGLEY, DENNIS ★ 19 MAR 47 - 6 JUL 69 SLATTERY, ROBERT ★ 15 JUL 46 - 6 JUL 67 HOVANEC, DONALD ★ 10 DEC 49 - 7 JUL 69 DAVIS, HARLAND ★ 4 JUN 35 - 7 JUL 72 WEBER, WILLIAM ★ 19 NOV 46 - 7 JUL 68 DODSON, ROBERT ★ 17 MAY 43 - 7 JUL 68 COLEY, BRUCE ★ 30 MAY 48 - 7 JUL 69 COYLE, HUGH ★ 24 MAY 31 - 7 JUL 68 BIBBS, WARREN ★ 2 APR 45 - 7 JUL 68 MCLAUGHLIN, THOMAS ★ 27 AUG 46 - 7 JUL 67 PISCIOTTA, WAYNE ★ 7 DEC 50 - 8 JUL 71 HUMES, FRANK ★ 5 DEC 48 - 8 JUL 69 JOHNSON, ANTHONY ★ 6 OCT 40 - 8 JUL 67 DEVORE, CRAIG ★ 21 JUL 47 - 8 JUL 68 MOSES, DONALD ★ 4 AUG 45 - 9 JUL 66 LUTTGENS, JAMES ★ 7 MAY 49 - 9 JUL 70 STRANGEWAY, JAMES ★ 15 MAR 43 - 9 JUL 68 ANDERSON, STEVE ★ 12 JUL 46 - 10 JUL 69 MANIAS, ROBERT ★ 23 DEC 47 - 10 JUL 71 MCCONNELL, JAMES ★ 13 AUG 46 - 10 JUL 68 CHRISTENSON, WILLIAM ★ 22 MAR 45 - 10 JUL 69 RETZLAFF, ARTHUR ★ 2 DEC 42 - 10 JUL 67 HAYWARD, ARNOLD ★ 4 NOV 32 - 11 JUL 69 LIVELY, WARREN ★ 26 JAN 51 - 11 JUL 70 USILTON, JOHN ★ 29 JUN 41 - 12 JUL 69 YOHNNSON, GEORGE ★ 10 APR 47 - 12 JUL 66 JUDGE, CHARLES ★ 30 SEP 46 - 12 JUL 67 COSTA, MARIO ★ 9 FEB 50 - 12 JUL 68 MORRIGGI, JOSEPH ★ 15 AUG 48 - 13 JUL 69 MOORE, JEROME ★ 29 JAN 47 - 14 JUL 67 MCCALL, GERALD ★ 13 JUN 40 - 14 JUL 68 COWEN, CHRISTOPHER ★ 6 JUL 47 - 15 JUL 68 VIEHMANN, GEORGE ★ 5 AUG 47 - 15 JUL 69 TENCZA, ANTHONY ★ 13 MAY 19 - 15 JUL 62 BERG, JOHN ★ 16 MAY 46 - 15 JUL 67 GOLDBERG, JOSEPH ★ 27 SEP 30 - 15 JUL 62 HAAS, LEON ★ 3 APR 43 - 17 JUL 72 CUCCINELLI, ROBERT ★ 30 APR 49 - 17 JUL 68 BACON, ROBERT ★ 3 JUL 45 - 17 JUL 69 VARS, JONATHAN ★ 28 SEP 43 - 17 JUL 69 HARTMAN, RICHARD ★ 1 MAY 35 - 18 JUL 67 ANASIEWICZ, RICHARD ★ 26 OCT 45 - 18 JUL 66 ZUKOV, STEPHEN ★ 22 OCT 46 - 19 JUL 66 BESCHEN, JAMES ★ 1 JAN 45 - 19 JUL 66 RIGGINS, SIM ★ 12 DEC 46 - 19 JUL 66 ALFONSO, JOHN ★ 22 SEP 46 - 19 JUL 67 GERTSCH, JOHN ★ 29 SEP 44 - 19 JUL 69 HEGGAN, DONALD ★ 17 AUG 44 - 20 JUL 68 OUTWATER, ALBERT ★ 25 MAR 46 - 21 JUL 67 GILCH, JAMES ★ 6 MAY 45 - 21 JUL 66 JAMES, RODNEY ★ 30 MAR 46 - 22 JUL 66 ORTIZ-BURGOS, JOSE ★ 1 MAR 49 - 23 JUL 68 VOLPONE, DANTE ★ 3 MAR 47 - 23 JUL 67 EUCKER, FRANKLIN ★ 24 OCT 45 - 24 JUL 66 VIRGILIO, LAWRENCE ★ 16 APR 42 - 24 JUL 67 JENNINGS, MICHAEL ★ 24 FEB 50 - 25 JUL 69 CHAMBERS, HILLMAN ★ 30 OCT 48 - 26 JUL 68 ASMUTH, ROBERT ★ 29 OCT 48 - 26 JUL 70 MAJESKI, MICHAEL ★ 30 NOV 49 - 27 JUL 68 RENCEVICZ, CHESTER ★ 16 OCT 49 - 27 JUL 68 CAMPBELL, DONALD ★ 31 MAY 36 - 28 JUL 68 SMOYER, WILLIAM ★ 2 OCT 45 - 28 JUL 68 SHOOK, BOYD ★ 10 APR 52 - 28 JUL 70 KRUPINSKI, FREDERICK ★ 19 JAN 45 - 28 JUL 68 VALLONE, RICHARD ★ 22 DEC 45 - 29 JUL 67 CAMPEAU, FRANCIS ★ 28 MAY 45 - 29 JUL 67 FELVER, GALE ★ 2 JUL 46 - 29 JUL 66 KEIN, ROBERT ★ 19 MAY 49 - 29 JUL 69 AMENDOLA, JAMES ★ 13 OCT 44 - 29 JUL 69 LAVELLE, JOHN ★ 30 SEP 50 - 29 JUL 70 BERZINEC, WILLIAM ★ 11 DEC 30 - 30 JUL 68 BATES, RONALD ★ 4 NOV 49 - 31 JUL 69

Alfred De Simone - Private First Class

Hometown:
Brooklyn
D.O.B.:
July 27, 1949
County:
Kings
Rank:
Private First Class
Branch:
Marines
Date of Casualty:

June 24, 1969

Casualty Status:
Killed In Action
Country of Incident:
South Vietnam

Alfred De Simone was born on July 27, 1949, in Brooklyn, NY, and attended John D. Wells Junior High School before moving to Jersey City, NJ. His home of record is Jersey City, NJ. He enjoyed a variety of sports including baseball, golf and bowling, but especially liked to go fishing.

Alfred enlisted in the US Marine Corps at the age of 18 rather than wait out the draft. His wife, the former Lillian Ogrodowski, said, “Ever since he was young he wanted to join the Marines.” But his main goal in life was to raise a family. He served in the 1st Marine Division, 3rd Battalion, 26th Marines. He attained the rank of Private First Class (PFC).

On June 24, 1969, at the age of 19, Alfred De Simone was killed in action near DaNang as a result of a gunshot wound to the body received from hostile small arms fire while on a squad size ambush. He left behind a wife and their unborn child. The couple had been married about seven months.

He had been awarded the Purple Heart for wounds received in a previous battle.

The following is the text from the speech given by De Simone’s daughter, Bonnie, on Monday, May 28, 2001, in celebration of Memorial Day at the NJ Vietnam Veterans’ Memorial, Holmdel, NJ:

This is the story of the greatest man I never met, the man who changed my life.

Alfred DeSimone was born on July 27, 1949. He and Lillian Ogrodowski knew each other their entire lives. They started dating when they were just 12 years old. They did many things that most 12 year olds do together…and one other thing…they fell in love.

They spent a lot of time together…they made plans and dreamed about the future. By the time they were 18 years old, they were married. Then, Alfred DeSimone got called to serve in the Army in Vietnam. But he wanted to be a Marine. He served in the First Marine Division, 3rd Battalion, 26th Marines. He received his first Purple Heart a few months into his first tour of duty…but this was just a small accomplishment in this extraordinary man’s life.

He was awarded a week of R & R in Hawaii. He immediately wrote a letter to tell Lillian, and she, even faster, boarded a plane to be with him there. They, just like they did when they were 12 years old, and again when they were 18 years old, when they said I do, made plans and celebrated their love. Lillian had a rough plane ride home and soon she realized it wasn’t airsickness that made her so ill.

She wrote, “I think we may be a family”…and Al was thrilled. The doctors soon confirmed her suspicions, and she wrote the good news to Al. Just like always, they began making plans. In what was to be Al’s last letter home, he wrote, I am so happy and cannot wait to be a daddy…p.s. I hope it’s a girl.

Al got his wish…You see that man was my father. And while his wish for a girl came true, he never got to see his daughter. See, just three short months later, on June 24, 1969, he was shot and killed in Quang Nam province. He left behind the loves of his life. His beautiful wife Lillian, pregnant with the daughter he was hoping for, the daughter he would never see, a 20-year-old pregnant widow, barely a woman herself. And in all the plans they made, they had never planned for this.

I never met my father, and that has been my greatest disappointment and my greatest blessing. I remember growing up wishing I could have been like the other kids, wishing I could have had a father…I wondered what my father would have sounded and looked like…I never got to hold his hand, feel his touch or have him tell me he loves me and that he is proud of me…I’d ask my mother to tell me about my father, but every time we’d look at his box of mementos or photographs, she’d cry, so I just stopped asking.

But every time I could, I would sneak into that box and sniff his uniform. I just wondered what he would have smelled like. I would read his letters over and over. Tracing his penmanship with my finger. When you never have a father, you wonder about a million things. And, yet even though I never got my wish, to have known my dad, I feel like he is closer to me than anyone.

Of anything I have ever done, or ever hope to do, I am the proudest to say that I am Alfred DeSimone’s daughter.

I’ve learned a lot about this hero…about how much he loved kids. Even though he had no money himself, he bought ice cream for all the kids in the neighborhood. How much he loved animals and nature and how much he wanted a family. In the face of a nation that told him not to go to war…he chose his country and the things it stands for…liberty, freedom and justice, and he was willing to lay down his life for it.

In place of pictures I would have had of my father and I, I have hanging on my wall a rubbing of my father’s name from the Vietnam Memorial. And this somber memory makes me smile every time I look at it.

It is his name, it’s Alfred DeSimone’s name. It’s my father’s name and it’s the name of a great American hero. My dad is more than just this name on the wall. He is my flesh and blood. He is my heart and soul. I want him to know that I am so proud of him and all he stood for and I am proud to be his daughter.

Now I spend my time reaching out to other children who have never known what it would be like to be tucked in at night, or taught to ride a bike or be kissed on the cheek when you’re having a bad day.

All of this has had a major impact on my life and many others. My mother was devastated by the loss of her great love and the father of her child. I recently spoke with her about it and she started to cry. She said she is still distraught by his loss and that no matter how many years go by, the pain is still there.

Memorial Day, for many travelers packing the Garden State Parkway, is a happy start to a long summer. For those like us, it is our chance to remember and reflect. But it is not a sad time…it’s a time when we can tell the world things like, “I am proud to be Alfred DeSimone’s daughter.”

I salute all those men and women who served and I thank you. God Bless you all and God Bless all our fallen veterans and families.

Sources: Bonnie DeSimone (daughter) and NJVVMF.
12/17/2024

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